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Posted by anonymous on January 3, 2012 at 8:20 PM

We had a case recently where an adopter wanted one of our bubs who has a serious heart murmur and after speaking to him at great length about the needs and expectations, a time was made to do a housecheck and meet and greet.

This was suddenly cancelled by the adopter on the day, on advice from his vet.  The dog, he was advised, would be dead in a month or two, would possibly need up to half a dozen different types of meds, and wasn't, according to the vet, worth the money, or the effort.

After digesting this info it occured to me a number of factors were all moving in different directions which stopped us from rehoming our lovely boy.  Here was a person, who after speaking to the foster carer, was prepared to look at adopting a special needs dog.  The type of person who is compassionate, and understanding, that while Charlie our cavvie might be in the twilight time of his life, he was prepared to give him the very best time to be had.

The vet on the other hand saw the situation differently, seeing his client as saddling himself with a dog that was going to cost a fortune, and would probably kark it in a few weeks.  Despite the fact that Charlie has lived with his heart murmur for his 8 years, and will probably live a few more hopefully, and under veterinary advice with ALL of our vets, and constantly monitored by his foster carer, this vet thought the idea of giving a dog like Charlie a loving home as unworthy.

I grind my teeth in anger, at the stupidity, and lack of thought at this position.

Having done rescue for a number of years, it is apparent that many vets are not on board with the idea of rescue.  Of treating animals, to allow them to get homes.  Of medicating them if they have a treatable condition, and finding a full informed and experienced family to welcome them into their home.  How on earth are we meant to move forward as a society, or human race, when there is such a basic discrimination taking place in a sector that needs a wider view?

The struggle as we prove over and over treatable pets who come into care can get great homes and lead fantastic lives is one we face with the large orgs killing for anything from timidity to a mild heart murmur.  Despite being the most beautiful, kind and wonderfully natured dog, irrespective of age, these dogs have lives stolen in a room, and discarded like they have no right, no needs, or no just cause to be on this earth.  It's insulting to those who know better.

But for a vet, who makes his living in the animal sector, builds a rapport with clients and treats their pets into old age, recommends an animal is unworthy is one of the lowest acts I have heard of for a while.

It takes no intelligence to understand we do not just leave terminally ill people in hospitals to die.  They are allowed to 'live' while battling a disease, whether it be terminal or not. 

To the vet who thought they were being so clever, every animal that comes through Rescued With Love 'lives' until it dies.  Managed, treated, medicated and loved with a quality of life present.  For those who wish to adopt dogs like Charlie, Matilda, Abbie, or Uly - standby what you believe.  Care for a soul that spoke to you, that made you want to give.  That gives you pleasure and love in immeasurable amounts.  You are worth 100 times more than so many others on this earth.

Please note, all dogs with medical issues are under the care of our vets.  Full disclosure is always made to every adopter regarding their issues and treatment.  We offer the adopter's vet full access to all treatment information and the ability to liase with our vets on the care they have been given while with RWL.

 

Charlie, still looking for his forever home.

ADOPTED: Abbie, corneal ulcers and scarring on both eyes.  Grade 5 heart murmur.  Broken leg healed untreated. Skin allergies.  Ear infections.  Broken/rotten teeth.

ADOPTED: Ripley.  Untreated dry eye causing severe low vision, treatment with expensive compound eye ointment.  Older aged.

ADOPTED: Bambi: older age, dry eye, ears infected.  Dental.  Shocking skin allergies.  Severe heart murmur with medication needed.

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9 Comments

Reply michelle
09:25 PM on January 03, 2012 
Oh, dear. I am disappointed to hear this. I have had this experience, too, but made my own decision - and now 4 years later still sharing my life with my beautiful little Sam. He has 'bandy' back legs and only 4 teeth but he has good eyes and good hearing. Loves to play 'our game' every day when I get home from work. Loves to meet other dogs and is just such a joy. I have 2 senior dogs, both with heart murmurs (no meds needed), sometimes skin problems, one even has a bit of dementia. They are worth every cent they might cost me and more.
Reply Lois
12:18 AM on January 04, 2012 
I so agree Michelle, I adopted Bill from RWL 18 months ago, he is deaf has no teeth and was supposedly 8-10 years old, no way is this man that old, every day he brings love and delight to Peter and Maude (his brother and sister) and me.I look at him and my heart swells with love for him, my life is so much richer for having him in it, we adore him, thankyou RWL xxxx
Reply Carol & Kim
01:45 AM on January 04, 2012 
That is so sad. Not all vets are caring and compassionate poor Charlie, sometimes you need to go with what your heart tells you. Give these special dogs a chance they have been neglected, abused you dont just put them to sleep. I thank God for RWL, Kae you and your carers care so much and give these dogs a second chance then get undermined by the so called vet. Our Sophie is an older girl, she has her issues but we would not be without her, no matter what goes wrong we will look after our girl whatever the cost. Keep doing what you do best Kae caring for and loving these dogs. Charlie you WILL get your forever home with someone that is just right for you and will love you no matter what. God Bless little man. XXXXXX
Reply Catherine
02:07 AM on January 04, 2012 
Love to know which Vet because I would make sure I NEVER went to their clinic. I just cannot believe this person, even if this vet is correct you could have given 8 months of love to this beautiful boy. Charlie looks like a gorgeous little boy who obviously would love his "forever" home. Thank goodness he is being looked after by wonderful foster carers. We adopted Baxter from RWL 3 years ago and we were unaware of any health issues, except that he was an older boy and with that you always know there could be potential health issues. Baxter has an enlarged heart, heart murmur and constant issues with his airways and is currently a sick boy and had to visit the vet on Boxing Day with a shocking cough. He has been given additional medication and has been to the vet again this week and another appt on Friday. Thankfully we go to a caring clinic, The vet phoned today to ask how he was going. Would we have adopted him knowing all of this ??? YES, we would have adopted him. He is living a happy life except that at the moment the vets are trialling medication to get things right. He is worth every cent ($$$$$$$$$$$$$) that we spend on him and we couldn't imagine a life without him and our other two senior dogs.
Reply chris lecher
06:01 AM on January 04, 2012 
The adopter of Charlie who pulled out of having the little man, didn't deserve him in the first place & wasn't really too committed ,as it sure didn't
take much to change his mind about adopting Charley.Shame on the vet I think that's a disgraceful comment.We love our bubs, warts & all, they do deserve the very best we can do for them & more if possible.I so hope Charley gets his forever home very very soon.Good luck little man & God Bless.xxxxxxx
Reply anonymous
04:16 PM on January 04, 2012 
I hear everything you are saying ladies, and agree with you all. How do we get the message out there as a large message to the general public?
kind wishes Kae - RWL
Reply Lisa
05:30 PM on January 04, 2012 
When we were looking for our second dog, our vet advised us to stay away from rescue groups as he said " you would never know what you were getting" (health wise). He was referring to a client that had to have her recently adopted dog put to sleep after just a few weeks, due to illness. It's a pity that he judged all rescue groups on this one case. He advised me to go to the pound instead.
Reply Dilys
04:41 AM on January 05, 2012 
I adopted my 11 year old chihuahua Paddy from a no kill shelter and was told he may not last three months as he had a dreadful cough and a high grade heart murmour. I was happy to take on Paddy to shower him with love for the last days of his life; shortly after his arrival the cough stopped and he started playing with my other dogs, three years have passed I am sure little Paddy will be with us for quite some time yet. I find it so rewarding adopting special needs dogs and would never hesitate for one moment to adopt one no matter what their age or their needs. I admire you Kae for taking on the oldies, you are an inspiration. I am also disgusted with that vets comments.
Reply Annie
06:09 AM on January 06, 2012 
What a blessing little courageous Bambi has been since our 1st home visit in May 2010 with Foster Mum Linda. It was 'love at 1st sight' for both Bambi & myself: a love bond that continues to grow stronger with each precious moment we have together. Yes, having a special needs pet is often a challenge, emotionally and financially, but would I trade this dear little dog for a younger, healthy dog while she has breath in her body? Absolutely not! She (along with my 3 other furry babies) fills my life with love and melts my heart with her absolute trust and dependence on me. She has such a strong will to live and even though her health status is often unstable, she is not yet ready to let go of her 'Mummy' and new found happiness. So unwell just before Christmas that I wondered if she would make it, nearly died in my arms last week, but once more has rallied and is trit-trotting around, following me every waking moment. These special needs animals are so worth adopting if you are the right person. Dear little Charlie will soon find his new forever home and know unconditional love. God bless Charlie, I wish I could take you too.
Thank you Kae, Linda & RWL for entrusting the gorgeous Miss Bambi into my care. I am grateful for every special day with her.